Answered Oct 22
They tend to think that everyone is like themselves, and that everyplace is equivalent.
There is common idea that everyone just remains living in one place for their whole life, and that nobody ever changes where they live. If they hear that you have relocated, they may treat you like you are on a temporary, short-term vacation. And that you automatically “have to” to go back to where you “really” live.
People who lack basic relocation-related skills, like navigating an unfamiliar area with a street map, tend to project that skill deficit onto everyone else.
People who lack basic relocation-related aptitudes, like the psychological ability to handle unfamiliar environments, or to go someplace alone, tend to project that aptitude deficit onto everyone else.
People who feel tied to a location based on emotional and/or financial dependence upon someone else, project that dependence onto everyone else.
I have encountered people who couldn’t even handle going across town, insidethe local area, by themselves, and projected that onto everyone else.
They also lack understanding that there may be legitimate practical reasons for a person to relocate. Someone in the suburbs of a large city may fail to comprehend that, some locations have very poor opportunity levels (e.g. small, isolated, impoverished rural towns with severe unemployment and underemployment).
They tend to think that everywhere is basically the same, including foreign countries.
Some people will start up with this immediately upon meeting, and will try to make the entire conversation about projecting these things.